One of the things we work the hardest on is the chaos some of the children bring into the homes. It happens in both foster families and group homes. There are several ways you can help if there is chaos in your home.
1. Keep the house clean and neat. When there is order in the home there will be less chaos. The children will feel safe when order exists, and safety is one of the 5 needs.
2, Keep a calendar, a schedule. This helps the children know they will be cared for. Knowing there are doctor, dentist, etc appointments helps them understand they are important enough to plan for. Knowing what recreational things are coming will also help them know in a good family, fun is part of the plan.
3. Problem solve all differences. Absolutely no yelling, blaming, name calling, or swearing. When the children learn how to problem solve, and when they know they can make a mistake and not start a huge chaotic mess, chaos will diminish.
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