When children first come to one of our homes, they appreciate the order. Things feel safe and they soon begin to work into the program, Then the problems show up. In chaos, people sleep and eat where and when they want. They clean if they want, carry the garbage if they want. However, chaos hides abuse, including physical, emotional, and/or emotional/mental.
On the other hand, the child also has an alibi for things that they are doing that would be noticed in an orderly home. Tardiness or truancy from school go unnoticed. Participation in illegal substances also go unnoticed, as well as late night hours, gang involvement, sexual activity, etc.
As the child works into an orderly home, and their chaotic behaviors show, they become defensive, angry and resistive,
Now the real work begins in earnest. All our talent, training and teamwork have to be in best working order to help the child at this point. That's what we are all about.
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