One of the first things I learned is that, although abused children do not usually identify feelings well, they are overwhelmed by feelings of guilt, betrayal, anger, fear, mistrust and a belief that they have no choices.
Some of the behaviors observed might be:
1.preoccupation - not hearing when their name is called, or a startle reaction when called.
2. keeping quiet - no opinion, avoids eye contact, doesn't engage in conversation.
3.pathological lying - even when telling the truth would make more sense.
4. overcompliance - fear of not pleasing,
5.running away - actually in older teenagers this is one of the most common behaviors.
These behaviors are the beginning of the list. I will add more tomorrow. If you would like more discussion just let me know and I can elaborate on any.
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